How to leave Whatapp group without shame?
It can be rude to leave a group when someone adds you to a whatsapp group. Or you initially didn't realise that a group can be so noisy or even tempting. You may want to just catch up but the discussions are endless. Usually discussing something online in a whatsapp group is not a great idea in first place but before you realise you are sucked into the endless discussions with no outcome. Lately I have been leaving all groups and now have left all of them.
Here is what I do?
- I leave the group immediately when someone adds me.
- Sometime I do monitor the group for few days and if I think it is getting noisy then I leave it.
- I don't explain it to people why I left.
- I always think about bigger goals in life. I have to ensure that everyday I spend time to work on my goals. Whatsapp conversations can consume hours of your day.
- I pick up a fight and leave the group. I find this approach best ;)
- Muting and archiving a group doesn't work. Leaving is your only option.
In reality you don't need more than 2-4 good friends at any stage in life. You can be good friends with 20+ people at the same time. People who really are your good close friends will not disturb you or will respect your time.